entry 5

Teachers in my life have helped me so much over the years. During high school I was in a low place. My teachers helped me so much during this time in my life. they were guides, support and always had an open ear for me to talk to.  There was a time when I was in class, upset and trying to hide my feelings, just wanting to leave class. As soon as the bell rang I packed my things, hoping to leave quickly. Instead I was called on by the teacher to hold back, so he could talk to me. I waited, since I had lunch my next period and I could afford to skip that. The teacher expressed genuine concern for me, and asked what he could do to help me. I told him about what was going on in my life, how it was affecting my schoolwork and focus in class. He worked with me to help me, and was really flexible. I still appreciate this teacher for how he helped me, especially during a time when I needed help, but couldn’t bring myself to ask for it.

This role for teachers is one that must be actively played throughout their teaching career I believe. I appreciate the teachers who do live their life this way. To notice when students are struggling, and to be able to reach out to them, is such a great quality for a teacher to have. I say this because I was that student, and I know how it feels to be on the receiving side of this. It made me feel like I was important, for someone to notice me struggling when I tried to hide it so hard. It made me want to fight to do well not only for me, but now for my teacher, who was willing to accommodate my circumstances.

This teaching style has no pitfalls. The students lose nothing from this type of teacher. They can only gain. They gain someone to talk to, someone who cares, someone who supports them, someone who wants what is best for the student. This is so important especially during middle school and high school ages. It requires a lot of effort from the teacher, but in the end, it makes all the difference. It made a huge difference for me, and I know from other who have experienced this as well, it makes all the difference for them.